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Why Clinging to Plans Will Lead to Failure: How to Embrace Setbacks and Fail Forward

Have you ever put your heart, soul, and savings into a plan only to watch it fall apart?

That sinking feeling of failure can be paralyzing. But what if I told you failure isn’t the end? What if it’s the invitation to your next breakthrough?

Let’s change the narrative today. Because the truth is: clinging to your plans might be the very reason you feel stuck. And sometimes, letting go is the first step toward rising higher.

We love plans. They give us structure, control, and a sense of certainty. But life isn’t a spreadsheet. Whether you’re an employee climbing the ladder, an entrepreneur building a dream, or a CEO navigating chaos, rigid plans can become prisons.bWhen things don’t go “according to plan,” many of us spiral into shame, fear, or despair. But here’s the truth: failure is not proof that you’re not good enough, it’s proof that you’re making progress.

The most successful people you admire? They’ve failed more than you can imagine. Take Walt Disney for example, he was fired for “lack of imagination” and got bankrupt multiple times. Imagine if he had let that define him. The world would have lost Disney.

The clear difference between those who succeed wildly and those who stay stuck isn’t luck, it’s their response to failure.

Failure is feedback. Feedback is fuel. It tells you what to do more of, less of, or never again. It gives you clarity and character if you’re willing to listen.

Every setback is a seed. It can either rot or root. Instead of asking, “Why did this happen to me?” try asking, “What is this here to teach me?” Because let’s face it, ignorance has a cost. You either pay upfront with humility and learning, or later with regret and missed opportunities. But when you start seeing failure as tuition rather than tragedy, something shifts in you. You become resilient and wise.

When you cling too tightly to your plan, you:

  1. Miss better opportunities
  2. Resist course correction
  3. Tie your worth to outcomes
  4. Stay stuck in the past

Plans should guide you—not define you. Take a moment today to think of a past failure and ask yourself:

  1. What did I learn from it?
  2. Who am I now because of it?
  3. What did that moment prepare me for?

Write it down. This single exercise has changed my life and many of my clients’ lives too.

Affirmation for Today

“I embrace failure as a stepping stone to my success.”

 

Failure doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re building. Don’t cling to plans, cling to your purpose. Let the rest unfold. You are the author of your life. Edit as you grow.

If you’re feeling stuck, ashamed, or afraid to try again, know this: You don’t have to do it alone. Whether you’re navigating failure, identity loss, or confusion about your next step, I’m here to guide you. I’ve been there. I’ve walked the path. I’ve led others through it. Book a therapy session with me today and let’s turn your failure into fuel.

Your transformed life is waiting. All it needs is your yes.

 

Your new beginning is just a click away.

Click the link below to schedule a session and take the first step toward a healthier mind:

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Let’s embark on this journey to happiness, fulfillment, and growth together!

Adeola is a Mind Genius, a seasoned Television & Content Producer, Stepmom Coach, Best Selling Author. She is a Life Giver, King maker and Love being, Certified Rapid Transformational Therapist and Clinical Hypnotherapist with the School of Rapid Transformational Therapy, UK. Adeola is air, she gives people a reason to live, love and breathe, she is light, she brings clarity and understanding, she is love, she loves because it is who she is, she is vulnerability personified because she carries all she is boldly and unapologetically, and she is an example on earth that God exists.

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