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As this book is titled, it is the story of a Step Mum sharing her struggles, lessons, pains, victories and growth in this journey of being a stepmother. This is the e-book version that can only be read online. You can also have the hard copy paper back which once purchased, would be shipped to you anywhere you in the country of Nigeria. The following is a summary of what this book gives to you and reading it will give you much more: Chapter 1: Meet The Family In this chapter you would be exposed to how to ask the right questions e.g. Is love really enough? You would learn to ensure your beliefs, values and desires align. You will also be exposed to being your own person and not to be a people-pleaser. Chapter 2: What’s The Outcome? Learn how to deal with the hurts and pains you have been through in past relationship(s) and for your partner to do the same so you can both come together healed and ready to love because: hurt people, hurt people and love people, love people! Also learn the importance of a support system; no man, they say, is an island. Chapter 3: It’s Not Your Shoes To Fill Learn the importance of getting to know the kids and their routines, likes & dislikes (Not because you will always oblige them but you can better relate with them when you understand them). Also learn not to replace the bio-parent knowing that you cannot change anyone. . Chapter 4: Don’t Ignore Mental Chemistry Learn who you are and how you want people to treat you. Ask deep questions about each other that will enable you relate better. Know your truth and his/her truth and how they align. Learn that marriage is much more than physical attraction, even though it is also important. Learn what to do when you are not sure on how to move forward and that seeking professional help is not a sign of weakness. Chapter 5: In My Bed Learn that change is the only constant thing in life and how to deal with it when it comes. Learn the signs of insecurity and how to deal with it. Chapter 6: Just Bread On The Table? Learn how to build self-awareness. Learn to first be the person you want other people to be. Chapter 7: Step Mum On Display Learn how to manage the expectations from the different parts of the different families. Learn about self love. Chapter 8: Mission Impossible Learn about what marriage is holistically. Learn things to do to make this new family unit more functional. Chapter 9: Get Some Fresh Air Learn how to find those things and/or people that make you happy and focus on them. Learn how to know and understand your body so you can teach your spouse. Learn that you do not have to do everything and it’s okay not to do everything! Chapter 10: In Love with The In-Laws Learn how to interpret every situation in a way that serves you. Learn good tips on effective communication with all parties. Learn what loving others really means and what it’d mean for you. Chapter 11: In Lock with the Out-Laws Learn how to set boundaries so that this new family unit can grow and function in harmony and peace. Learn how to decide what you want with your family and stick to it together. Chapter 12: Who Gets Who and When/What’s For Xmas Learn how to start your own traditions in this new family and be comfortable with it. Learn to be prepared for the resistance and deal with it in love and peace. Chapter 13: Love Yourself; It’s A Must Learn how to choose yourself and why. Learn how love people from your overflow and not from your own cup. Learn to be first, then do. Learn to always take responsibility for your victories and losses and to see a lesson in every circumstance. Do not delay, there is so much more to experience!!! Click on the link and start your journey to phenomenal now!!! This e-book also comes with the e-workbook, get your copy here: https://selar.co/9ok5 I cannot wait to hear your experience after reading this book. Kindly leave a review comment. Love and Light Adeola Kingsley-James

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As the title of the book suggests, this is a book for stepmoms. This is the e-book version and can only be read online. There is also the paperback which can be delivered to you anywhere in Nigeria. If you are outside Nigeria, you can get it on Amazon. This workbook gives practical steps to take to be a phenomenal stepmother (and stepfather). Below are highlights of the nuggets. Step 1: Taking Ownership This is about taking stock of where you are, who you are? Who do you want to be? Where are you going? Answering these and many more questions. Step 2: Forgiveness There is no moving forward in peace, love and harmony if you are holding unto unforgiveness. Learn how to let go and move on. Step 3: Gratitude Learn how to be a grateful person no matter the situation. Being a person of gratitude, changes the way you look at difficult situations. Step 4: Mindset Learn to be aligned in your thinking and to manifest your true authentic self. Step 5: Action Learn how to bring your many desires and plans into bite size action. "The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step" - Lao Tzu Step 6: Self Love Learn how to love and appreciate yourself even through the mistakes, unpleasant decisions, difficult times. Learn to let go of things and deeply appreciate and love you. Step 7: Purpose Learn how to evaluate your life's purpose. Learn how to change your situation if you are not happy with where you are. Step 8: Communication Learn how to be patient in communication especially with the stepchildren. Learn how to enjoy the process of the parties opening up and being vulnerable because it will take time. Step 9: Healthy Boundaries Learn how to set boundaries so that you and your new blended family can keep some things private. Learn how to figure out those things that you want to fit into your privacy boundary. Step 10: Integrity Learn how to be a person of your word, both to yourself and to other people. Step 10+1: The Non-Negotiables Learn how to establish those systems and rules that you will always insist on. Learn how to choose the things that should belong in this category. Do not delay, there is so much more to experience. Click on the link and start your journey to phenomenal now!!! This e-book also comes with the main e-book, get your copy here: https://selar.co/2aya I cannot wait to hear your experience after reading this book. Kindly leave a review comment. Love and Light Adeola Kingsley-James

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The path of blended families is laced with challenges, especially in a society such as ours that is heavily steeped in religion and culture; both of which are veritable tools of conditioning. Adeola Kingsley-James bares it all in these explosive, jaunty, and ridiculously sincere books: STEP OUT, STEP MUM and DEAR STEPMOM (Workbook). She shares practical insights and firsthand experiences as a wife, mother, and stepmother in a blended family. These books contain stories and guidelines that will empower women who struggle with navigating the sometimes harsh terrains of blended families. Dear Step Mom, are you trying to navigate through life, family, and career? What are you waiting for? You also get the latest book from me, The Transformed You. Click on the link and get your copy now!!! KINDLY NOTE THAT THE PRICE OF THE BOOKS DOES NOT COME WITH THE DELIVERY CHARGES. THE CUSTOMER IS RESPONSIBLE FOR PAYING FOR DELIVERY. THANK YOU

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The book is titled THE TRANSFORMED YOU It is about self-discovery and healing from pains and traumas and things that have held us back from becoming better versions of ourselves . There are 16Cs on things that have held us back from developing. Then 16Cs on how to grow, improve, and become who you want to be. It’s a self-development book to move people from raw to transformed diamonds. Grab a copy of this book today and see yourself become better!