Are you the kind of person who finds it difficult to express how you truly feel to your friends, always defaulting to “I’m fine” because you’ve been told to stay positive?

Many of us live with the idea that we must always be upbeat, that negativity is something to be avoided at all costs.

We push down our emotions, offering a smile when what we truly need is to be heard.

But this need to always appear strong or positive can create distance—not only between us and those around us, but also between us and ourselves.

When we suppress our true emotions, we lose touch with who we are. I’ve been there too. For years, I embraced the idea of positive thinking to the point where I ignored my own struggles. I wanted to believe that everything was fine, and that if I stayed in that mindset, I could keep negativity away.

But the reality is that pretending everything is okay when it isn’t doesn’t lead to healing or growth. In fact, it creates a wall between us and those we care about.

The truth is, *vulnerability is what fosters genuine connection* . When we are honest about our feelings, we open the door to deeper relationships.

Saying “I’m struggling” or “I feel hurt” is not a sign of weakness. It’s an act of bravery that allows others to see us as we are—human, imperfect, but worthy of love and support.

Toxic positivity, where we hide behind a facade of perpetual optimism, keeps us isolated. It’s like wearing a mask that says, “Everything’s fine,” when inside we’re aching for someone to notice our pain. Real connections are formed when we let down that guard and say, “This is hard for me right now,” or “I need help.” Vulnerability allows for empathy, understanding, and healing.

In friendships, partnerships, and even within ourselves, honesty and vulnerability are the keys to intimacy and growth. When we stop pretending and start sharing, we allow others to support us, and we strengthen the bonds that matter most.

So today, I invite you to lean into your vulnerability. Name your feelings, share them with those you trust, and watch how your relationships evolve into something deeper and more meaningful.

If you’re ready to take the next step to beak the chains of toxic positivity and embrace the freedom that comes from being real., consider reaching out to us at OMG, where our licensed and supportive therapists are here to guide you on your journey to healthier relationships.

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